[PW#21] Silent for the sake of Harmony
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Silent for the sake of Harmony
I just read the title and reviewer of the book "Silent for the sake of Harmony", at a glance, this book tells about how the struggle of women in facing justice in public and private spaces. Sometimes they have to be silent because some propositions from religion forbid them to speak out, save their families as a consideration even they have to be hurt, and some have silent because unfamiliar in the environment because culture does not give an appreciation for their attitude to demand equality. Yes, that's what happened now. Silence is an effort that tends to be forced so there is no commotion in the public and private sphere, silence is a manifestation of a good acceptance so as not to damage the order of life that has been in effect for a long time, and silence is considered as part of the characteristics of good women. However, this book does not want to justify it as a truth, but instead wants to dismantle all the behaviors and actions that put aside the current roles and facts of women, also as a social satire that must be discussed, researched and become a turning point for the rise of women in the public and private sphere .
Of course, every person, both men and women sometimes have to take a silent when seeing the circumstances and the reality that occurs. Silence does not mean that they do not have the ability and knowledge to see this fact, but silence is sometimes taken by someone so that the situation does not get worse, giving peace and not spending energy to be useless. Once again, that silence is a choice, you are not forced to be silent, but you are also not forbidden to go out and speak up what you want.
There are husbands who must be silent when they see their wives are furious and do not want a fight to occur in front of their children, there are wives who must be silent when criticized by in-laws for appreciating them as parents of their husbands, there are children who must be silent because their parents do not understand the life that live now. Remember! once again, silence is a choice so when you speak up, think and react to not be silent, you also have to be wise in conveying it. A husband will find the right time to reply to his wife's opinion so that children do not consider it a fight, a wife can give an opinion through her husband or with a letter on his father-in-law's birthday cake, as well as a child can give an opinion through his teacher.
It is very important, that silence must sometimes be chosen as an effort to save the bigger thing, silence is taken as a way to avoid a commotion but maintaining silence without action is a bad tendency for everyone, so the turning point of all silence is elegant and weighty delivery. When ? You better know the right time for all that.
My silent today with nature.
I chose this place on purpose because I think this place is a good place to think and devote thought to not be silent in doing something meaningful. Seeing the silence of nature, observing the beauty of the scenery is good nutrition for the state of the soul. My vibrations, emotions and instincts waved with the rhythm and cheers of nature accompanied by the sun. The harmony of life colors the lively nature of turmoil, everyone opens a new page in his book of life.
The splash of sea water that I felt at the seashore seemed to wash away my silent silence and my longing for dreams and dreams. That spirit flows away and gives meaning because of the exoticism of the universe. Really when I saw how beautiful the dynamics of the changing movements of the universe in the morning, afternoon and evening, there was also a speck of my tears flowing because nature was so happy and not like me who longed for happiness.
In there corner, when the waves pounding hard hit the shore, when the wind was so happy through the fun branches from trees, soil and sand struggling and longing for each other in happiness, implies and teaches the spirit to me who stay here and look for the expectations and implementation of happiness which is rarely get it now. "Passion must be kept alive" nature told me. Nature asks about how I am. Is there still my dream left? Hurry up and get it now, so there is no more aridity, let's feel everything that has been lost, because the rainbow has come in the morning as a sign of awakening and the colors of life will always be there to look at.
Keep spirit :)
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Silent for the sake Harmony
Aku memang baru membaca judul dan resensi dari buku "Silent for the sake Harmony" ini, sekilas buku ini bercerita tentang bagaimana perjuangan perempuan dalam menghadapi keadilan dalam ruang publik dan privat. Terkadang mereka harus diam karena beberapa dalil dari agama melarang mereka untuk bersuara, ada pula faktor menyelamatkan keluarga meski mereka harus tersakiti, dan ada pula harus menjadi asing di lingkungan karena budaya tidak memberi apresiasi atas sikap mereka untuk menuntut persamaan. Ya begitulah yang terjadi saat ini. Sikap untuk diam adalah sebuah upaya yang cenderung dipaksakan agar tidak terjadi keributan dalam ruang publik dan privat, diam adalah manifestasi dari sebuah penerimaan yang baik agar tidak merusak tatanan kehidupan yang telah berlaku sejak lama, dan diam dianggap sebagai bagian dari ciri perempuan yang baik. Akan tetapi, buku ini tidak ingin menjustifikasi itu sebagai sebuah kebenaran, namun sebaliknya ingin membongkar semua prilaku dan tindakan yang mengesampingkan peran dan fakta perempuan terkini, sebagai sebuah sindiran sosial yang harus dibahas, diteliti dan menjadi titik balik untuk kebangkitan perempuan di ruang publik dan privat.
Tentu, dalam kehidupan ini setiap orang baik itu laki-laki maupun perempuan terkadang harus mengambil sikap diam ketika melihat keadaan dan kenyataan yang terjadi. Diam bukan berarti bahwa mereka tidak punya kemampuan dan pengetahuan dalam melihat fakta tersebut, namun diam terkadang diambil oleh seseorang agar keadaan tidak bertambah parah, memberi ketenangan dan tidak menghabiskan energi menjadi percuma. Sekali lagi, bahwa diam itu adalah pilihan, kamu tidak dipaksa untuk diam, namun kamu juga tidak dilarang untuk keluar dan bersuara atas apa yang kamu inginkan.
Ada suami yang harus diam ketika melihat istrinya sedang marah besar dan tidak menginginkan pertengkaran terjadi di depan anak, ada istri yang harus diam ketika dikritik oleh mertua karena menghargainya sebagai orang tua dari suami, ada anak yang harus diam karena orang tuanya tidak paham dengan kehidupan yang dijalaninya saat ini. Ingat! sekali lagi, diam itu adalah pilihan maka ketika kamu bersuara, berpendapat dan bereaksi untuk tidak diam, kamu juga harus bijaksana dalam menyampaikannya. Seorang suami akan mencari waktu yang tepat untuk memberi balasan pendapat dari istrinya agar anak tidak menganggapnya sebagai pertengkaran, seorang istri bisa saja memberi pendapat melalui suaminya atau dengan sepucuk surat pada kue ulang tahun mertuanya, demikian juga anak dapat memberi pendapat melalui gurunya.
Penting sekali, bahwa diam itu terkadang harus dipilih sebagai upaya yang menyelamatkan hal yang lebih besar, diam itu diambil sebagai cara agar tidak terjadi keributan namun memelihara sikap diam tanpa aksi adalah kecenderungan yang tidak baik bagi setiap orang, maka titik balik dari semua sikap diam adalah penyampaian yang elegant dan berbobot. Kapan ? kamu lebih mengetahui waktu yang tepat untuk semua itu.
Diamku hari ini.
Aku memilih tempat ini dengan sengaja karena menurutku tempat ini menjadi tempat yang baik untuk berpikir dan mencurahkan daya pikir untuk tidak diam dalam melakukan sesuatu yang berarti. Melihat kesunyian alam, mengamati indahnya pemandangan adalah nutrisi yang baik untuk keadaan jiwa. Getaran, emosi dan naluriku melambai-lambai bersama irama dan sorakan alam ditemani sang mentari. Harmoni kehidupan mewarnai semarak gejolak alam, setiap orang membuka lembaran baru dalam kitab kehidupannya.
Percikan air laut yang kurasakan di tepi pantai ini seolah membasuh asaku yang terdiam membisu dan kerinduanku pada cita dan impian. Semangat itu mengalir jauh dan memberi arti karena eksotika alam semesta. Sungguh saat aku melihat betapa indahnya dinamika pergantian pergerakan alam semesta di pagi hari, siang dan malam, disana pula setitik air mataku mengalir karena alam begitu bahagia dan tidak sepertiku yang merindukan kebahagiaan.
Di sudut sana, saat deburan ombak begitu kencang menerpa tepian pantai, saat angin begitu gembira melewati cerianya dahan ranting dari pepohonan, tanah dan pasir bergumul dan saling merindu dalam kebahagiaan, menyiratkan dan mengajarkan semangat kepadaku yang berteduh disini dan mencari ekspektasi dan implementasi kebahagiaan yang kini mulai jarang kudapatkan. "Gairah hidup harus tetap menyala" begitu kata alam kepadaku. Alam bertanya tentang apa kabarku, Masih adakah mimpiku yang tersisa? Segeralah dan reguklah, agar tak ada lagi kegersangan, mari rasakan segala yang telah hilang, karena pelangi telah datang di pagi hari sebagai tanda kebangkitan dan warna warni kehidupan akan selalu ada untuk dipandang.
Hormat saya
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What a greta post and food for thought
Thanks you so much sir :)
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Thank you my friend :) very appreciate
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wow beautiful photographs my friend. it is looks more beautiful with black and white mode. thanks for share with us..
I am just trying my another ability my friend. Thanks
Like everything in life, a balance must be found. Thanks for your words!
You are welcome sir and thanks for visiting my blog
You have quite nice shots always in your posts! For this one I have only one small advice: In future try to give more attention to the background, especially when the sea-line is there. It should be parallel with the top & bottom photo-lines... It's a "photo rule".
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