The issue of trust
The word trust is the bedrock to a healthy relationship, be it , intimacy or business must be trust for a relationship to be healthy. Over time we have seen that we find it hard to trust our fellow humans and this has caused a lot of problems as we relate with other people. For me I will be talking from experience and I will say the main reason why people have trust issues is because of past experience, though some have trust issues because of the stories they might have heard but 99% is from past experience.
Past Betrayals
This has caused so many wounds in the hearts of many including me, I have been betrayed by the very people I trusted most, and this has left my heart with scars. It takes only God to heal me, because he is the only one that understands the language of my tears. Since we are human we will take note of the lessons life throws at us including the one done by humans so they don't repeat itself again in our lives, at this point of my life the bear of trusting people is so high, I don't want to become vulnerable again to the point of believe everything someone will tell me.
Some people will say when you love someone you will trust the person, well this is true to some extent but in this world we are now we can only love someone but not trust them, because our love today may turn to be bitter leaf tomorrow and then if care is not taking betrayal may set in and they will forget all the love you both shared together.
I believe in love but the aspect of trusting human is difficult for me, I just pray God should heal my heart from every hurt so I can trust again.
Trust is expensive to give out to people because at the end we will get betrayed
Yes my dear they will always hurt you at the end
Very true, many people who has trust issues owe it to past betrayal and I pray you get healed very fast.
Amen. Thanks for stopping by and for your prayers