A colder kind of Revenge
Good evening dear hivers. How are y'all doing?? How was your day? I hope y'all had a wonderful day. Thanks to @HiveGhana for this weeks prompts.
When I opened the weekly post to check out this weeks prompts, i couldn't help but smile so hard. The second topic was just calling me and I decided to follow.
So we've been asked to share our revenge plan if we've been left at the altar. I couldn't help but just laugh at these topic because I have heard a lot about issues like this and I'll never wish for it to happen to me.
I know that my head sometimes de touch thats how we Nigerians say my brain sometimes malfunctions in pidgin. My people will expect me to tear the guy till the last but on this one I will shock everyone. Revenge is better served cold. My revenge plan would be moving on and living a fufilled life. Before I continue what does revenge mean.
The word "revenge" means a situation where one inflicts harm or injury on someone in return for something they have done to you. It's often seen as an act of retribution or vengeance, often with the goal of causing harm to the other person.
However, this doesn't always lead to a positive outcome. Revenge can be a cycle of anger and violence that never ends, and can ultimately make everyone involved feel worse than before. This definition shows that nothing good can really come out of revenging badly.
Theres no need to waste time on revenge. I'm sure that my ex that hurt me will eventually face karma and I'm very sure I'll stay to watch. Living well is the best revenge. The best revenge plan I could ever do to a person who broke my heart is to let them see that I am and can be happy without them.
When you live well, as time goes by, you will definitely start to feel a bit of satisfaction. The anger and bitterness begin to fade, and you realize that seeking revenge wouldn't have made you feel any better. You might begin to have the understanding that the best revenge is to live a happy and fulfilling life, without any thoughts of the person who left you at the altar.
If you start to focus on the positive things in your life, and eventually, you even find the courage to start dating again. And that relationship might just be "The one". You even come to the realization that by focusing on your own happiness, you've achieved the best possible revenge. And you no longer need to dwell on the past.
That's the best revenge of all: Happiness. Nothing drives people crazier than seeing someone have a good fuckin' life without caring.
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STOPExactly!!
There's no better revenge than making it, improving yourself and being a boss
It's so true that the best way to "get even" with all of that drama and stress is to persevere, improve ourselves, and rise above it all. By being our own boss and taking control of our lives, we can truly overcome anything. Thanks for stopping by
Being happy without them is the best revenge and don't let them know that you're hurt when they feel they've hurt you to pieces but then they see you from afar smiling and looking all stunning they will be in shock, now that's the best revenge. Negative revenge will only make things worse and can lead to some crisis if care is not taken.
You're absolutely right that happiness and success are the best forms of revenge - there's no better feeling than knowing that we've overcome the challenges and hardships that have been thrown our way. And you're so right that negative revenge only leads to more negativity and pain - it's much better to focus on our own growth and fulfillment. Thank you ☺️
I was smiling throughout whiles reading your post
Awwwww
Thank you ☺️
You’re welcome
This is a refreshing perspective that you have given.The is nothing as good as working at making yourself happy and improving on yourself.
Very true. It's a very healthy and empowering perspective to focus on our own happiness and self-improvement, rather than dwelling on negativity or revenge. It's like they say, "the best revenge is living well." 😊
It helps us live happier lives.
Oh yeah
Self love and improving yourself can serve as a best revenge. Leave it to karma and they will face it. Just focus on yourself
Self-love and self-improvement are truly the best forms of revenge - by focusing on our own well-being and growth, we can let karma take care of the rest. That way, we can stay focused on the positive and productive things in life. Thank you ☺️