Good morning everyone... happy new year. This is my first time of posting in this community for year 2024.
Last year had been a Lovely and memorable year for all of us. Last year was great but this year will be greater. I love the fact that I was able to Grow last year and this year... my growth will be urge.

So this week, i am in love with all the topics given here. And i always love the fact that #hiveghana usually give topic that concern us and our everyday lives.

So for today, i will be answering the second question which says So the question is, If you had your own talk show, who would you like to interview? Why them? And what would you ask them on the show

Omor... this is my favorite question and this is what I am into. I love talk shows and interview and that's why I won't hesitate to answer.

If i had an opportunity to be my own talk show host.... ehhhh, i would love this particular lady to be my guest.. which is Esther Perel

This particular lady is someone i wish i could meet in person and talk one on one. This is because i have a lot of questions to ask her on relationship. So if i see any opportunity, then i won't hesitate to grab it.

My first guest would be

Esther Perel

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Esther Perel psychotherapist and she is also writes book pn relationship which she is an author too.
One of her book which she wrote is ** The state of affairs** and then the title of her podcast is where should we begin we should all try it. Her books arw enlightening.
Her area of specialization is on relationship and sexuality 🤸🤸. I just love the fact that she is into all this things because i really want to know and learn more about relationships and sexuality as a growing teenager.

why Esther Perel

The reason i choose Esther Perel is because... this is her field, and she will do it more better. She will give me the insights of what i what to know and learn
You don't expect me to go meet a doctor, because he won't know. His field is about human body.
So, Esther will enlighten me more and give me a lot of wisdom here.

questions i will ask Esther Perel

I have a lot of questions to ask Esther, reason been is because relationship is something that occurs in our today world. Everyone wants to be in a relationship.

First question
Is sex really necessary in a relationship
This is because majority of the people in relationships make it a priority. I almost entered into a relationship were the guy told me if we don't have sex, what else will we do in this relationship
Omor... I was shocked because i wasn't expecting it.
Most guys have told me that they can not be in a relationship without sex and that is the most important thing why there are dating.
I will definitely ask her why this things happen because it's becoming alarming.

I will ask her about the dynamics of relationships
How to communicate in a relationship with your partner...why do people always have problems in this particular aspect. Is it that their partners are too tough or what. And trust me,a lot of young people relationship has failed be because of this.

Another dynamic is trust
Why do people have lack of trust in a relationship, if you didn't trust that nigga very well, so why go into relationship with him/her.
. I really want to know why it is hard why there is no trust in a relationship.

Equality is one of the dynamic i will ask her
In a relationship is it proper for inbalance of equality to come in?? Or everyone should be found equal.
I have come across one relationship were the wife feels so inequal with the husband, all in the name of respect. I really want to know ooo, because when inequality set in in a relationship, the wife tends to feel bad and timid and sometimes Because of this inequality, husband's tends to use i am the head to bring a woman down.
And this has broken a lot of relationships because most women wants to be treated equally like their husbands.

Second thing i will ask her is the challenges a lot of people face in their relationships
I won't let anyone deceive me, i know that majority of the people in a relationship has different challenges in each of their relationships.
I will ask her the challenges involved in a relationship and how to work out this challenges.

Finally,
I will ask her how to build and maintain a healthy, peaceful relationship with each other
I want her to enlighten me more on all this things.

Don't get me wrong, i know most of this things...but because i want enlightenment.

Thank you for reading my blog, feel free to comment, reblog, argue and upvote.

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