A Worthwhile Clique

Friendship often time is more than the companion we give to others, it grows above the materialistic phase, somehow it is a contributive effort of intentional/ like minded people aiming to make things work better and easier. Though being able to sustain friendship could be some times hard, but it is always okay to make efforts.

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However, the circle we belongs to speaks so much volume of the kind of persons we are as there is a cliché that goes "Show me your friend and I will tell you who you are". There is no lie in this as the circle we are clearly determine how far or how bad we will go in life. One cannot be with intentional people and be living his or her life waywardly, the chance is very minute and as such close to being insignificant.

I personally, i'm in a group of intentional friends, just 3 of them, personally, I don't like talking much of postponing events or actions, I always want everything to happen immediately the idea is birth, I can proudly say, I am the Motivator in my own circle. I know how to press buttons till things are being done no matter how hard they seemed to have been.

I remember when I and my two friends wanted to open a mini food processing company back then in 2021, there was no capital to start up, such a beautiful business idea almost went down the drain because of these factors. We had a meeting and concluded we Weill be doing the business the next year which happened to be 2022, I couldn't take it,I remember how I talked to them for over 2 hours so they could see reasons with me and readjust the date but at the same time, push them to save more than 40% of their salaries back then.

On May, 2021, we used all our salaries to start it up, though it was a little beginning, but before October that same year, we were being given a factory space for free without a single charge. On August, 2021, our company was registered by the Governor of my State, Akwa Ibom State. At the end of the year, I was able to push their buttons till we moved from just a big of crayfish to 10 bags of crayfish for production.

Today, we are running a mega food production company because of that simple act of step taking. Currently, if my friends have issue, they will always run to me for motivation and it's always satisfying how I somehow find solution to it. They know I live by faith and it has been working out very well for me.

We are also into a project which will be launched on the 28th of February, 2024, it is a learn and earn platform, just as they were complaining of funds and sponsorship, I told them if we could own a processing company, then we can own this one as well, right now we are closed to rounding up the project and preparing for the launch date, this is just the power behind motivation.

It it not just enough to answer someone's friend but our contribution to the growth of such union matters the most, personally I think, inorder to have a beautiful circle, sacrifices has to be made through our individual efforts, so if you get to find yourself in a circle where there is no contributive effort to improve each other's lives, it should be a clear indication that it is a Square and not a circle because in a circle, what goes around, comes around, a square gets stocked at the angle.

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Well, I agree with you to some extent. But the adage of show me your friend and I will show whom you are isn't really working these day because I can see my friend doing something that is bad and I want to emulate it. It's not possible. I only emulate the good things he does and not the bad ones. Great points.

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Mind you, the longer you stay with that friend, your subconscious would pick up his reasoning. It is not possible to be in any company and not be influenced. Being selective of behaviours could be different. But you would be influenced one way or the other. lol. Give it time…

Funny thing is, you won’t even realise it until someone randomly says “That’s just like your friend”.

This is why couples end up looking like each other. Even friend grow to look like each other the more they stay together. Just give it time. That thing you were selective about, you’ll begin to do them with one mind 😂

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Lol, okay 5hen. I can't fight this more, with the various scenarios you have given.. Nice point..

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I am glad you're able to see reasons with @deraaa, time plays an important role when it comes to the company we keep and it influence on us.

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@deraaa, I love how much you've laid emphasis on this, I should've done this but I am most grateful you saved me this time. Thank you so much for being broad on this.

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Well. We see who you are in the group. And that is quite the story. Very motivating. 😌

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Wow I do have a friend in my clique of friends too, her impact is beautiful and I'm glad to see yours is even bringing good fruits for you all.

Having friends who adds to our lives is always a beautiful thing, keep being that friend to them.

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Having good friends as mine is one of the beautiful things life can offer.

Thank you for your kind advice, I really do appreciate, I never knew that before now.

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That a very wonderful role @megareigns. From the look of things, you are obviously a strong willed person. You friends are lucky to have got you, and certain you are lucky to have got them too😀

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I will say, I am really a lucky person, their ideas are always top of the game, so all I do is to push the idea towards reality, that is only when my impact could be felt as I am not really good in accessing business ideas.

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You can't claim to be someones friend when you don't impact in the person's life either negative or positive, you are friends when you build up together.

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That's very true my friend, one way or tf other, we are being influenced by the kind of company we keep.

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Friends are scattered across a large part of life. We cherish those old days of friendship in different ways through communication. It is better to communicate with friends to remember. May God bless you always with beautiful healthy days. At the same time, I respect your friendly love. Thank you so much for introducing us to some wonderful conversations. Yes my friend I participated here very glad you can review my post.

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The role that you are playing among your friend is amazing. For growth to happen, there must be innovative efforts towards it and you've done well in motivating them to make that happen.

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